Is she hitting on me????

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This is all new to me, and I am finding it really hard to tell if this woman I work with is hitting on me. I find woman and girls touch each other a lot more even if they are not gay. I really like this woman I work with, and don't even know if she is gay. She is not married and she said she never wanted kids. She has done a few really nice things for me. But the heart stopping moment is when she slowly bend down to look at my keys and my badge that hangs between my breast, and the she put it back the same way....How can I find out if she is in to me?

 
By Countrygirl on Fri, 02-24-12, 14:54

ask her. Women are more open minded and are willing to discuss things like this. How do ya ask, well if you were not inbterested you would not be asking tis question. Part of you mind is interested. However women are more free willing to put there emotions out there. I being a straight female have had many of women hit on me. I start with them and ask them or make small comments like " oh you want me" or and state you are straight. sometimes there might just be someone you are very interested in. Its ok, women are more loving, caring, and express feeling and pay attention better. Just ask

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By moondancer on Sat, 02-25-12, 22:34

Thanks CountryGirl, It sound so easy, and I will give it a try.

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By hiswife84 on Mon, 02-27-12, 20:46

I say just put it out there. I usually do & have had a few ppl say their straight & some are just bi-curious.

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By moondancer on Tue, 02-28-12, 23:35

Hi hiswife84, I will be putting it out there...today we were at work and we were having a great talk, when I heard someone one on the other side of the partition that goes all the way up, when she saw we look over that way she said " Don't worry no one can see us." We were both were we had to be at that time, so we were not going to get in trouble, she also told me how much she likes my hair and she touched it. My mouth was sooo dry....<3 sick.

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By hiswife84 on Wed, 02-29-12, 04:50

Well keep us posted! She does sound like she might be hitting on you.

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By Countrygirl on Thu, 03-01-12, 20:10

moon
how do this make you feel? could it be something you may be interested in, or is it lust? they more that you talk the more things will come out... Are you leading her on? sometimes we flirt and dont realize we do. bring it up about a "freind" that just came out, and see where that conversation goes....we are strong, so go for it

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By moondancer on Thu, 03-01-12, 21:52

Well ladies..... I went for it, I called her up and asked if she would meet me for a drink. I got to the bar first and order a drink and she came into the bar and was surprised I was almost done with my drink. We didn't stay, we went back to her house we talked for a while and she ask me "what do you need from me" I told her how I felt ( that I liked her and wanted to get to know her better). She said damn you have balls! I laughed... Yes she is attracted to me. So we are going to take it slow, and that is great with me. Life is good.

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By Countrygirl on Fri, 03-02-12, 05:54

YIPPEE !!!!!!, i am so glad you just went for it, now down the line you can laugh about the story with her about your online support friends.. know it is all out in the open. go slow and enjoy the fun before you go any place else !!!! but dont forget about us !!!!

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By moondancer on Fri, 03-02-12, 16:10

I will not forget about my friends here. We (my friend and I) are going on a long walk on the beach on Sunday. :o)

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By Countrygirl on Mon, 03-05-12, 13:54

ok well were is the scoop about your walk. you cant leave me hanging !!!!

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