Please help! I'm going obsessed and I don't wanna be alone!

By Yrustrulli on Tue, 01-10-12, 19:48

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I'm a 17 year old girl that really doesn't have many friends. And I've been confused about my sexuality. I'm definitely attracted to girls and I definitely like girls, and I'm definitely am attracted to guys too. But I have never really liked a guy before (Besides celebrity crushes) and I have liked a few girls. I don't think I will ever connect with a guy as much as I can with a girl. And another thing is, I can not see my self having sexual relations with a guy ever. Just the thought of it grosses me out. But anyways, this summer I met the most amazing girl. And I started to fall for her. We just connected so well. But she's straight so when I confessed my feelings to her of course she said that she can't like me back. But she said she wants to be my friend which kinda made me happy because I've always had trouble making friends in the first place. But the the problem is that i keep falling for her more and more. I'm becoming obsessed with her and I don't think she's comfortable with that even though she said that she was. What should I do?! I feel like i'll never find any one like her ever again! I don't wanna wait another 17 years! The reason I like her is because she's so innocent, and real, and has so much inner and beauty. I have yet to find anyone else out there like that. I feel like she's the type of person that deserves to be liked and I want to be the one to like her. She admitted that she was worried about me and that she cares but it just makes me fall for her more. I might be falling in love with someone who I'll never have a chance with. If this keeps up I'm gunna be alone for the rest of my life! Someone please help me!

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By Britty0788 on Tue, 01-10-12, 19:56

I have wtinessed your exact situation with my best friend. She was always into men .. Boy crazy if you will u til we met a leasbian who fellin love with my friend. Adrien e has never expressed feelings for girls until ashley came along.. They dated for a long time. But in te end adrienne realiEd she loved ashley as a person but sexually it
Just wasnt there. What Im getting at is Inthink you will end upmore hurt
If the two of you remain close... Has she ever told you she might have the same feelings as u do for her?

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By Yrustrulli on Thu, 01-12-12, 14:51

She said that she thinks sexuality has to do with genes and she can't change her sexuality. Is that true?

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By leasee03 on Tue, 01-10-12, 20:03

Hi Yrustrulli. I know how you feel. I was in the same situation as you when I was your age. Sometimes you have to realize that you have to back off in order for things to fall into where you want them to be. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Cliche I know, but it often holds true. Good luck hun. I know this is a difficult time in anyone's life.

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By puerto rican princess on Tue, 02-21-12, 11:38

i understand where you are coming from i have been there only once was so in love with her but i had to move on it was hard i also can't stand guys it's so hard women understand just a little better and i just want to be okay i was in a sexually abused mentally psychlocal abusive relationship.

you took my silence you stole my heart you told me lies you took what you wanted. you called me names you made me feel worthless i felt so horrible felt as if it was my fault. i had no control happend so many times it some how became normal after a while. i really thought i was nothing really thought no one would love me as much as i felt you did before you would start psysically attacking me . i said no i said stop you wouldn't listen so i wait for it to be all over. you pushed me down you pushed my face in the pillow i can only sleep certain ways all because of what you have done insonmia have become my friend . today my silence is broken ready to speak out you raped me and i hate you.

feel horrile i love women and the world world will judge me what should i do still haven't moved on feel worthless like a man won;t ever love me or want me felt like shit the things he would do to me and alot of people have told me oh thats your man its not rape your with him last time i checked no met no

ptsd is ruining my life..........

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